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Jupiter | 17th Nov 2009, 23:50 | 占星體驗 | (1312 Reads)

之前說過土星進入天秤座的效應,接下來的故事,就是土星跟冥王的四分相。其實未來一兩年,星星都會很忙碌,各就各位,為我們上演幕幕驚心動魄的戲碼。

這個土冥四分相呢,本應上星期就寫,不過自從在facebook開設了fan page後,喜歡以每天的短訊形式發放占星體驗,對於要鋪排的blog文,就顯得有點懶惰emotion
(hehe,所以想緊貼星星動態的朋友,記得加入我的facebook page)。

今天,剛看到一段新聞,說到每年字典都會作出修定,加入當其時相關的潮語,而09年的「字王」,是「Unfriend」,即是我們在社交網站上delete一個人的意思。於是就推動我寫這個土冥四分相了。

08年頭冥王進入山羊座,帶來金融大海嘯,將整個世界的架構重整,將不合格的東西剷掉。而現在,他跟山羊座的守護星土星 (現位於天秤)形成了四分相,也就是再一次給我們警告和機會,要將一直建立起來,但已過時、不適用的人和事清掉,而這個過程,因為是四分相,也就顯得特別辛苦、艱難、有阻滯,可是又有一種壓迫感,要我們去清垃圾。

那會是什麼垃圾呢? 土星可以是一些架構、權威,或你一直辛辛苦苦打造出來的東西,不過,sorry,無論過去你花了多少力氣去建立都好,如果到了此時,那些東西已不合時宜、已經生鏽、不能再為你做什麼,又或原來根基不穩,受不了考驗,現在都要炸掉。

而天秤座呢,特別就是跟人際關係、伴侶、公平、公義、甚至外表打扮、美學的東西有關。所以「Unfriend」一詞,相當配合,就是你要刪掉哪種連繫? 無論那是一個人、一件事、一家公司,甚至是---心理上的陰影和擔子。話說土星的關鍵詞是「恐懼」,而冥王是「深層恐懼」,所以,像小學生把兩者加起來,就是double的恐懼!!!一方面我們會因為改變而產生恐懼,很多人寧願停留在惡劣情況下,也不願改變,因為那種要變的恐懼看來會更可怕; 另一方面,在那些鞏固的東西下,可能就是埋藏了我們很深的恐懼、一些歷史悠久的垃圾,就像我們心裡,有一間房間,好好的關起來,一直都不去碰它,當你迫著要去開門時,就發現裡頭又臭又髒,於是想趕快把門再度關上。可是,如果不去處理這些垃圾的話,它們累積到一個程度,會把房間迫爆、會傳出毒氣臭死我們。所以,土冥四分雖然給我們一種壓迫感,但也就是推動我們、給我們一個機會去清理內心的恐懼和垃圾。

外行星的相位,一般會持續一兩年,給我們足夠的時間去辦妥。剛好11月中是第一擊,2010的2月、8月再來兩次,還有2011年5-8月的最後一擊。開始想想,你現在最需要/最想unfriend的是什麼? 有什麼陰影、包袱需要面對和清除呢? 作這個轉變有多可怕? 又如何面對內心的恐懼呢?  這個四分相,是在開創星座的頭幾度,好處是給我們更大的積極性去take action作出改變,當然,他的力度也會很大。

這只是這兩年的好戲的一小部份,明年還會連同天王星木星組成Cardinal Climax,才是高潮所在!

除了之前提過的土星入天秤,2010年我們還會經過木星入雙魚座天王入白羊座,小魯老師在他的blog已率先預告,快去看。

另外,想多認識占星學的朋友,可要留意了 :
12月我會舉辦占星入門講座---從星盤看你的愛情
我們占星學院的M1 遠距課程(以普通話授課),現正招生,詳情請看學院網站
香港這邊的M1,預期於3月開課,密切留意日後的詳情公佈。


[1]

擲地有聲的文章....借我轉貼喔!可不要把我unfriend掉! LOL


[引用] | 作者 Rod | 18th Nov 2009 05:33 | [舉報垃圾留言]

[2] unfriending on bday

On my birthday the person I love so much "unfriended" me on Facebook but he still continues to chat with me via email. Does unfriending needs to happen at all levels for it to be successful? Like if you need to unfriend someone, you must get rid of this person at all levels for the person to be permanently ceased from your life. It did not hurt at the time but it's been hurting for over couple of weeks now. It's very sad to be unfriended on Facebook and I've never unfriended that many people unless that person really hurts me. I feel that there are more people who hurt me than the ones I hurt. Just got inspired to write this about "unfriending"


[引用] | 作者 babysoftpink | 17th Dec 2009 08:21 | [舉報垃圾留言]

我們被unfriend會覺得很受傷害,但有時我們也會去unfriend別人。正如陳百強歌曲的金句 : 莫道你在選擇人,人亦能選擇你

[引用版主回覆] | 作者 Jupiter | 18th Dec 2009 23:43

[3]

交朋友也是雙向選擇

當我們被他人unfriend時,倒可以利用這個機會來尋找自己需要unfriend的心理陰影


[引用] | 作者 Taylor | 20th Dec 2009 18:41 | [舉報垃圾留言]

十分同意。如果我們被人unfriend,正常是會感到不開心的。不過,也可利用這個機會,去看看自己的傷口,找尋療愈的機會。

[引用版主回覆] | 作者 Jupiter | 20th Dec 2009 18:51

[4] Re: Taylor

Even very important person like President Obama has many negative voice unfriending him after he's elected. Does he have to look into every case to see if there is an opportunity for growth and for him to heal. He's way too busy for that. Also, it's more important to be yourself, do whatever you like to do, to that person who unfriend or to yourself. It does not matter at the end. You just have to believe in yourself and do as you desire. The key is believing in yourself. Quoting Ann Albers, "listening to my soul means honoring myself in the moment. Do I want to be around someone or not? I have to be honest with myself. What do I need to authentically express, and can I say it with kindness? When you are honoring your soul, you AREN'T attached to OUTCOMES, just attached to honest expression each moment in time. You are not afraid of "LOSING" people because you know you can't lose yourself. You aren't afraid of lack because you know you are connected to the source of abundance." Because you cannot lose yourself or the other person, just do as you desire. Don't look for trouble where they don't exist. People who are divorce one day and re-marry again years later . People break up every day and get back together again and again. Just go on with your lives. If you are meant to be together with each other, defriending is only a temporary state. Nothing last forever because the world evolves everyday and every minute.

Taylor :

交朋友也是雙向選擇
當我們被他人unfriend時,倒可以利用這個機會來尋找自己需要unfriend的心理陰影




[引用] | 作者 babysoftpink | 23rd Dec 2009 04:35 | [舉報垃圾留言]

[5] Re: babysoftpink
babysoftpink :
Even very important person like President Obama has many negative voice unfriending him after he's elected. Does he have to look into every case to see if there is an opportunity for growth and for hi...


選擇如何看待一件事情的面向,是每個人的自由。如果你是那種承認發生在生活中的任何事情都是有自我的原因的,你會利用每次“心痛”的機會來讓自己成長。若非,那就過自己喜歡的那種生活方式吧。沒有對錯與好壞之分。


[引用] | 作者 Taylor | 26th Dec 2009 04:15 | [舉報垃圾留言]